The Couple Checklist That Could Make Or Break Your Relationship

I have something really exciting here for all couples interested in evaluating their relationship and determining how well they actually “click” together!

Of course, every couple is unique, but the essence remains the same!

There are specific areas and elements of a relationship where you absolutely need to be aligned to make it work.

There’s really no way around it.

And isn’t it just so amazing to be able to check all these things off your list and discover how compatible the two of you really are?

This relationship checklist honestly has the power to either make you or break you!

After thoroughly reviewing all these points, you’ll either recognize how fantastic you and your partner truly are together or come to understand the areas that REALLY need improvement in your relationship.

Remember – you’re reading at your own discretion!

I’m just kidding… but seriously, what you discover here could truly impact your entire relationship.

So be open to putting in the work if that’s what it takes. After all, that’s the whole objective!

So… are you ready to see what you’re made of?

Three, two, one… let’s dive in!

1. Neither of you ever attempts to change the other, yet you’re entirely comfortable expressing your strong opinions, regardless of the outcome.

This is a very important thing to mark off your list because it demonstrates your mutual respect, care, and the ability to be open, honest, and authentic with each other.

There’s no walking on eggshells and speaking half-truths.

You respect each other and wouldn’t dream of trying to change your partner.

However, when necessary, you’ll stand your ground, and it won’t be awkward.

2. Your communication in the relationship is healthy, open, and trusting, with zero passive-aggressiveness and no sly remarks towards each other.

Communication can be quite challenging at times.

Feelings get hurt, and the temptation to be passive-aggressive about it isn’t uncommon.

But with you two, it’s not like that at all.

You can be open, honest, and not feel uneasy about stating the difficult truths.

You don’t try to undermine each other and never make sneaky comments.

You tell it like it is, and you don’t go to sleep angry.

What’s bothering you is resolved the same day, and life is truly peaceful because of it.

3. You do fight, just like any other couple, but with one crucial difference. There are no low blows. You two always fight fair, laying all the cards on the table.

There’s no denying that occasional arguments are inevitable in any relationship.

No one agrees on everything all the time, so it’s perfectly fine – as long as the fight is fair and nobody resorts to low blows.

And you two never do. You value each other too much to engage in nasty or vicious disputes.

You never hold past mistakes against your partner.

You focus on the issues at hand and never deviate from that.

Honesty and transparency bind you two together strongly!

4. Your relationship has its ups and downs, but with you two, the ups overwhelmingly outweigh the downs!

You’ve experienced your share of challenges and difficulties.

You’ve endured fierce storms and moved beyond past hurdles.

And now, you can confidently say that you’ve been enjoying each other’s company, where good days far outnumber the bad ones.

No one claims it’ll be all sunshine and rainbows, but you know that for every bad day, there are a hundred good ones.

And your good days make all the bad ones worth enduring, and then some!

5. You laugh with each other more than with anyone else in your life. Laughter is your favorite pastime, and you’re never lacking in that area!

This scenario should be the norm for any couple hoping to withstand the passage of time.

Laughing with each other makes you feel incredible, carefree, and deeply connected!

The two of you can hardly control your giggles most of the time.

You’ve got inside jokes and your humor is perfectly in tune, keeping laughter constantly alive in your relationship!

And you wouldn’t want it any other way.

6. Your visions for the future are in sync, and you both understand each other’s long-term desires because they match your own!

There’s no fear of discovering that your partner’s aims and aspirations differ from yours.

All these crucial matters have been discussed, and you’re in complete agreement.

You are certain about where your partner stands on marriage, children, and living arrangements.

Both of you are familiar with each other’s five-year plan and share mutual understanding.

You’ve covered all the bases, and your aim is to make it happen in the forthcoming years, doing it together and with no one else.

7. Your partner is your sanctuary and your home. When you’re with them, the world fades away, your concerns vanish, and a sense of calm blankets your entire being.

Your partner is your home.

There is no other place you’d rather be when you need to feel secure.

There is no one else you would turn to in times of trouble.

They are your person and your foundation.

When you’re together, everything feels alright in that moment.

No matter what’s happening in your life, it ceases to trouble you when they are close.

It fills your life with peace, safety, and tranquility.

And during these times, you realize how exceptionally precious and irreplaceable this person is.

Without them, nothing remains the same.