14 Ways To Make Him Realize He Needs You

At times, a relationship reaches a stage where people overlook the need to fight for one another because they feel so confident in their emotions for each other.

We all become accustomed to having someone by our side, feeling like they’re a part of us with no risk of losing that part.

However, a healthy relationship demands both individuals to continuously strive and work together to ensure success.

Everybody craves appreciation and wants to feel loved and valued.

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Feeling ignored, overlooked, and unwanted are some of the most heartbreaking sensations in a relationship, particularly if we truly care about our partner.

They say the deepest loneliness is the one felt beside the individual we cherish.

So, what’s next? Have you caught yourself feeling isolated in your relationship?

 

 

Are you feeling like you’re being taken for granted? Or have you just started the relationship and you really want to make it work, to show him that you are the One for him?

Do you ponder how to make him understand he needs you?

We compiled games and methods that can make him acknowledge that you’re the one he needs and the one worth fighting for.

Approaches that will show him that he is losing you and that it’s time he steps up his efforts to keep you around.

Prove to him that you’re more than just a physical presence

You’re not just somebody to warm his bed or help him relieve stress. You have emotions, you have needs, just like him. Demonstrate to him that you are more than just an object in a house.

Instead of solely rolling around in the sheets, express to him that you have the necessity to discuss your troubles and emotions.

Illustrate that you two are best friends, lovers, and lifelong partners, not merely casual companions.

Men often overlook certain benefits of having a wonderful woman beside them because they become consumed by their fast-paced life.

But reminding them of those things again will certainly slow them down a bit and allow them to truly appreciate the moment.

Take a moment with him and ask him to converse with you, listen to you. Show him that he makes you feel good and you require his embrace to feel that again.

 

 

Express to him that you feel isolated and taken for granted and that this isn’t what love entails. Show him that he can have enjoyable times with you, as well.

Bring him a beer and put on his favorite movie or game to watch it together.

Play some music that reminds you both of the time you just met and simply enjoy it with him.

Take him on a journey down memory lane that would remind him of you two beginning as friends and later becoming lovers and partners.

Remind him of the woman he fell for and the way he used to treat you.

If he continues to take you for granted, perhaps it’s time to return the favor.

Demonstrate to him that you trust him

One reason some men distance themselves is a lack of trust or feeling that it’s absent in a relationship.

Perhaps he feels uneasy leaving for business trips without you there because he worries you’re upset.

Maybe he can’t enjoy the present because he suspects jealousy at every turn.

Reassure him that he has your trust. Reassure him that you trust him with your heart, with your feelings, with your insecurities.

There’s no stronger connection than fear and hope. Sharing your deepest emotions and nightmares, along with love, is something no man could ignore.

Propose that the two of you take a getaway weekend once his work is finished. Or switch off your mobile phones and enjoy the company and the moment you’ve carved out for each other.

Dedicate the entire weekend to cooking together, dancing, and sharing intimate moments.

Remember those times when you spent long hours in pillow talk? When did you last engage in that?

When was the last time you let each other in fully? Use the getaway weekend for reconnecting and reinforcing the bond you have.

Allocate time for each other—not just you for him

Perhaps he’s so accustomed to your presence that he has forgotten he needs to put in effort to maintain it.

Next time he calls you, don’t pick up. Start a new hobby, meet new friends.

Demonstrate to him that he now needs to make an effort to be with you, that you’re not just there to respond instantly when he calls your name.

You are an individual who needs to feel desired.

Once he shows he’s willing to fight for you, work gradually on reaching compromises. Sometimes there’s no simple way to show him he’s losing you.

If he proposes you both go out and you already have something in place, don’t cancel your plans for him.

Show him that you have a life outside of him and that you have others you care about in your life, he’s not the only one.

Instead, suggest rescheduling the date to another day or a few hours later.

If you continue to allocate time for him, yet he only does so when it suits him, he will never stop taking you for granted.

Express gratitude

Just like you need to feel valued and cherished, he needs that as well. But instead of the usual compliments, try to approach it differently this time.

Tell him you never doubted his ability to excel with that project at work. Mention how much you love how safe he makes you feel.

Say how you look forward to spending quality time with him alone so you can appreciate his amazing physique.

How you want him close to you and to fall asleep in his strong arms because you feel vulnerable.

Show him that he’s appreciated, that there’s numerous reasons you chose to be with him.

Express your admiration for his work ethics and intellect. That he makes you happy and you want both of you to remain happy.

Say ‘thank you’ once in a while because we become so accustomed to the things people do for us that we start taking them for granted.

Perhaps he feels like he’s being taken for granted and that’s why he’s pulling back?

Simply show him that you notice his efforts and value them.

Venture out without him

You used to go out

Together Constantly, But Now You’re Spending Nights In

You both used to be inseparable, but recently, your evenings have been all about staying in, watching Netflix, and those rare instances of intimacy.

If that’s not enough for you, and you’re not ready to openly communicate that to him, then it’s time to demonstrate it instead.

Step out sans him. If there’s a movie you’re itching to see and he’s not keen, go solo or with friends. Why compromise on lounging at home?

Craving a night at the club, but he’s not into it? Go have a blast – you used to hit the clubs long before he came along. Show you’re capable of enjoying life independently.

It’s wonderful if he’s there to share those joys, but if not, let him come to his own realization. If he opts not to join you but is happy to socialize with others, remind him you can play that game too.

If he remains unresponsive, something may be amiss – perhaps he’s stressed, depressed, or involved with someone else. Remember, your happiness is paramount, even if it means without him.

Highlight Your Confidence

Confidence doesn’t come naturally to everyone, and maintaining it often proves more challenging than developing it. But if you’ve got it, flaunt it!

Are you worried he’ll be jealous of how stunning you look in that tight dress? Wear it with pride. If he questions your loyalty, that’s a separate issue to address.

Yet, if he’s confident in your relationship, what could possibly go wrong in reminding him of the incredible person he’s lucky enough to be with?

You have career opportunities – worried he might feel threatened by success and a higher salary?

If you can tackle the career challenges ahead, you can manage these concerns too. Trust your instincts; if it feels right, pursue it.

Your self-belief may inspire his own. He can learn to see you through your eyes and appreciate you on a deeper level. If he finds this overwhelming, ponder if you need such negativity in your life.

Occasionally Let Him Fend for Himself

Resist the urge to always rescue him when he’s unwell or facing work challenges. If he claims he can handle it, let him. You’re not his mother who’s constantly at his beck and call.

Let him iron his shirts every now and then, or request that he whips up a meal since he’s great at it. Small victories count. It’s crucial to show you’re not just there to serve his needs.

Often, we go above and beyond to make others happy, including our partners. But remember, your happiness is equally vital.

Why not allow him to take care of himself at times, or even you? Demonstrate trust in his capabilities without blame or anger, understanding men may react negatively to labels like “irresponsible.”

If you value your independence, offer him the same opportunity.

Win Over the People in His Life

If you get along seamlessly with his mom and his dad sees you as a blessing? Fantastic, a significant portion of the effort is already in place.

Consider planning a weekend trip to visit his parents, reminding him of how much they care for you both and how good you both look as a couple.

If his pals view you as the ultimate woman, convincing them of his great fortune in having you, make it a point to keep this in his memory.

Invite them over to watch the game at your place and offer some snacks, but don’t linger too long. Make time for a night out with your girls and have fun on your own.

Show that you possess an existence beyond the relationship—a trait that is greatly admired by men: women who are independent and not overly dependent.

If his social circle loves you but he’s becoming distant, there might be a deeper issue at play.

Honestly, he would have to be quite foolish not to recognize just how fantastic you truly are.

If your strategies have gone unnoticed by him, a serious discussion might be necessary.

Neither of you are satisfied and it’s essential to address this together.

Put Yourself First and Help Him See Why

Neglecting your own needs just to maintain his happiness and satisfaction is not a sustainable way to uphold a relationship.

He’s become so accustomed to your constant care and presence, leaving him with little incentive to nurture himself or your relationship, believing you’ll always handle it.

Prove him wrong by prioritizing yourself. Rather than visiting his parents for the third consecutive weekend, take a trip to a place you’ve always wanted to explore, solo or with your friends.

Quit complying with his preferences unless he respects yours. If his feelings are hurt, aim to ease the situation rather than escalate it.

Peacefully convey to him the necessity of that weekend escape, a much-needed opportunity for personal time, and express your desire to feel appreciated and needed. At the moment, you no longer sense that.

Give Him Some Breathing Room

There are activities men enjoy on their own or with their buddies such as watching a sports match, hanging out at the bar, or going fishing (a.k.a. having drinks and chatting about life’s troubles).

This doesn’t imply a lack of love or appreciation for your company—it’s akin to how we enjoy shopping trips or spa days.

He cherishes that time and desires to relish it without worrying whether you’re feeling bored or fearing his friends might say something that could hurt you.

As much as you adore his company and wish to be by his side, it’s essential to provide him with personal space.

Spending every moment in each other’s presence could lead to feeling overwhelmed and spark unnecessary conflicts because neither of you have had time to decompress.

Believe me, this time is as vital for you as it is for him, which brings us to the next step.

Enjoy Life Beyond the Relationship

It’s crucial for him to realize that you aren’t reliant on him, that you are doing well on your own.

This can pique his curiosity about your schedule, the lifestyle you have beyond the relationship.

Engage in a different hobby and cultivate friendships with people who aren’t linked to your life and are unaware of your partner.

This will offer you the perfect chance to find new ways to enjoy your time, to discuss topics other than those you usually talk about with him and your circle of friends.

You will discover new things to delight in, and it may ignite the passion and kindle the spark within you.

No More Excuses

Making excuses for him, every time he messes up and every time he causes you hurt, will only lead him to believe he can take you for granted.

Stop tolerating any unacceptable behavior because pretending it doesn’t exist will only make things worse.

Make sure he understands that you have feelings too, and that he should put in more effort with you.

If you’re annoyed that he’s not helping with chores or the kids, communicate it to him.

If he takes your efforts for granted, convey it to him. He won’t recall it unless it’s too late.

We all aspire to make our partners happy and often forgive too many things because of love.

But keep in mind that loving yourself is perfectly fine, too. That it’s okay to leave when it becomes overwhelming.

That demanding the respect you deserve is absolutely justified. It will either compel him to respect you and appreciate you more, making him want to spend time with you, or it may lead him to leave.

Either way, it results in a happy ending. You’ll either get the partner you deserve or rid yourself of one that isn’t right for you.

Show Initiative in the Bedroom

Intimacy is important—not as essential as the other things, yet it still holds significance.

Be alluring, drive him wild, tease him and make him crave for more.

If you’ve been doing it the same way for long, switch things up. Take charge and show who’s in control. Push him to the brink and pull away until he pleads for your return.

Or deny him the enjoyment itself but send him texts that are so provocative he’ll be overwhelmed. Seduce and play with him until he can’t endure it any more.

Reveal to him what he is truly missing, and trust that it will inspire him to go the extra mile in satisfying you.

Engage in different games, such as leaving garments leading from the entrance to the bedroom so he anticipates what’s in store once he enters.

Or leave him a note saying that you’re hiding somewhere unclothed and he can do as he wishes when he finds you.

Send him images of lingerie and ask for his input on which you should wear when he gets home, and when he does—wear none.

Flirt with him publicly through texts over meetings or gatherings.

Demonstrate to him that you desire him in that moment and challenge him to take the initiative.

Don’t Let Him Always Have Things His Way

This isn’t the 16th century anymore. We’ve strived hard to attain what we have today and, honestly, we’re still fighting fiercely.

The era when a man’s word was the absolute decree in a relationship is over.

Notify him you’re not entertaining any of it. He wants you to attend the game with him, but you’re not interested?

If he begins insisting that you go and tries to sway you to comply, put an end to it at once.

You have your own desires and preferences. Let him know what you require from him.

If you want him to participate in parenting, convey it to him. If you want him submissive in bed, take control. He isn’t so extraordinary as to always have things his way.