Don’t Put Her Second If She Always Puts You First

Let’s be honest, as a guy, you might find it challenging to fully understand her perspective. If you think I’m mistaken, feel free to stop reading, but I’d advise against it.

This article has a lot to offer, so let’s dive in.

How many of you dread shopping trips with her, tackling household chores, or assisting her in finding the ideal dress?

The realistic and perhaps unsettling answer is that there are too many. There are exceptions, and you might be one, but if not, let me share some insights about women with you.

Women are wonderful, resilient, and self-sufficient individuals, yet they can also be very sensitive. Although characterized this way, it doesn’t mean they’re there to shoulder your responsibilities.

Women are entirely capable of everything you can do, but honestly, it’s a gentleman’s gesture to lend a helping hand. And when you do, you’ll find they truly appreciate it—believe me.

Reality check, my friend: when those days arrive, it can be very challenging for both of you to handle the mood swings, but remember, you’re not the one experiencing the discomfort. Give her a hand, cook her a meal, bring her some chocolates, cuddle with her.

She would act the same way if you were under the weather, and we all understand how guys can be when they’re sick. Handle your chores and take care of hers too when she asks. Never let her feel isolated.

Never let her feel isolated. Ensure she always has someone in her corner.

She might one day be your spouse and the mother of your kids. You can’t hope for a solid marriage if she feels unheard when with you.

How can you remain present even if you’re not physically there? How can she feel central to your life even when apart? It’s easy; before you leave, remind her she’s the one and only.

Instead of merely saying the words, demonstrate it. Show up for her in ways that count.

There’s no better way to express your care before leaving than a warm, lingering hug or a soft kiss on her cheek. A tender touch echoes louder than words.

She will feel cherished, secure, and above all, not alone. While you’re away for work or travel, she will hold onto knowing you carry her in your heart regardless of the distance separating you.

This means she won’t burden you with insecurity, or bomb you with midnight phone calls or consult little fits. She’ll understand she’s the one you adore.

Reflect on your place in her world. She consistently places you at the forefront, so treasure that.

Now that you’ve secured top rank in her priorities, discard any urge to take chances with flirting with another girl.

It’s crucial to treat her with the same reverence, ensuring she remains your primary focus as she earns that.

Put her first. Not second. Want to hear a story about a boy who prioritized a girl?

Even better, want to create that story? Happy endings aren’t solely for fairy tales.

You could be her Knight in Shining Armor. Occasionally call her just to enjoy the sound of her voice, to ask about her day, and to check how she feels. Shower her with surprises; it doesn’t take much to make her smile.

Gift her a single flower, pen a little love note, grab her favorite meal, pick up a bottle of wine for just the two of you. When together, lock eyes with her, admire her speaking mouth, relish the intricacies.

Pay attention when she speaks, even if it’s the hundredth time, or if she’s just being playful. By listening, you’re showing you care.

Don’t ever let her face hardships alone. If you can’t solve it, stay beside her. Stand by her side and achieving happiness is entirely possible.

Put her first and watch as everything else falls into place.