Love Needs Hard Work; You Can’t Just Leave When Things Get Rough

When you truly love someone, you love them completely. You embrace both the good and bad moments, standing by them through every challenge.

Your love isn’t conditional on everything going perfectly or when life is at its best. True love means you remain by their side no matter what comes your way.

You stay with them even in the toughest times, resisting any urge to escape or hide from the difficulties.

Indeed, love is a beautiful experience that shouldn’t complicate your life. However, remember that love is not a fairytale, and it will never be flawless.

Because, from time to time, things can simply go wrong.

And during those times, the depth and strength of your love are put to the test. Love is more about the journey than the destination.

It requires commitment and effort. Love demands dedication and perseverance. It requires energy, hard work, and significant sacrifices.

Unwavering commitment is needed for both joyful and challenging days.

Because walking away from someone dear isn’t just an option. You don’t abandon them when reality becomes overwhelming.

You don’t just turn your back when things get tough.

Exactly what you did to this woman. You left her when she craved your presence the most.

You abandoned her without a struggle, just when she desperately needed you to stay. This is not what you do to someone you cherish.

Because when you truly care, you journey through life side by side. You demonstrate they can always count on you to be their steadfast ally.

True love means embracing all of them, not just the facets you prefer. You accept their flaws and imperfections.

You share their burdens and view yourselves as a united front.

When you genuinely care for someone, you are aware that the path won’t always be smooth. You know that there will be difficult times.

And when such situations arise, rather than withdrawing, that’s when you strive the hardest to preserve your relationship. That’s when you dedicate your efforts and energy into overcoming the challenges.

This is when you prove to your partner your faith in your shared bond.

When you love someone, you stand by them, regardless of whether they are at their best or worst.

You hold their hand no matter the circumstances, never abandoning them at the first hint of trouble.

You don’t flee when they need care, have issues, or simply need a comforting shoulder.

You don’t turn away when they long for your support and when their only need is reassurance that you’re there to stay.

Instead, you remain by their side, demonstrating unwavering support. You don’t act as if their issues are irrelevant to you, and you never even consider abandoning them.

When you care for someone, you don’t vanish just when they require your presence the most.

You don’t chicken out, and you reassure them that together, you can tackle any life challenge or hurdle you encounter.

This is something you never did for this girl. You never showed her that she could depend on you, nor did you fight for your relationship.

It’s easy to stay in someone’s life when everything is going smoothly. It was simple for you to be with this girl during the sweet times.

But it demanded a genuine man to truly stand by her and be her pillar of strength.

And clearly, you weren’t mature enough for that role. Instead, you acted like a coward who withdrew when she needed you to hold her hand.

So no, your love for her was never enough. Because you don’t turn away from those you truly love.