Your Words Don’t Mean Anything If You Can’t Back Them Up With Actions

Ultimately, I just want a man who will truly live by his words.  

I wonder if in this current dating scene, that’s asking for too much, but it’s what I’m asking for anyway.

Please don’t be someone whose words and actions are in complete opposition.

I’m exhausted from hollow words and broken promises. I don’t want to scrutinize you to determine if you’re truthful or not. 

I’m tired of men faking concern just to end up in bed with me. My emotions are weary of being manipulated. I’m ending it now. 

For once, I wish to feel like my heart is securely held. 

Be someone I can completely trust. If I catch you in a lie once, I will assume you’re always lying, and it’s the fastest way to erode trust.

That’s the swiftest way to lose me.  

It’s straightforward really—you just have to mean what you say, and prove it by remaining consistent. It’s not that tough. I manage to do it all the time. 

For once, I wish to know that someone is truly there for me. 

I would like to have someone I can call at any hour, day or night, when I’m feeling down or lost.

I don’t want to only be someone’s fair-weather friend. I want someone on whom I can rely through the storms. 

I don’t need anyone to rescue me or solve my issues. I just need you to be there while I tackle them.

I need to know that someone truly cares and that will be all the strength I need. 

I want someone who will be so transparently genuine that he silences my uncertainties.  

It doesn’t matter that some truths are difficult to hear at times. I still favor truth over lies.

I want to fully know who I am with and where we are in our relationship at all times. 

We can’t build anything on unstable ground because trust can’t thrive there.

I can’t give my whole self if I’m too afraid that you’ll break my heart. We require a strong base composed of trust to keep us steady and close at all times. 

‘I’m sorry’ doesn’t carry weight if you repeat the same mistakes. 

No matter how sincerely you deliver your apology, it’s meaningless if you keep doing the same hurtful things repeatedly. 

Mistakes happen, issues surface, but repeating them means you lack respect for me and don’t care how your actions affect me. 

I want to hear that I am the only woman that matters to you, and I need you to truly mean it. 

“Don’t lie. Don’t deceive. Don’t make promises you can’t keep.” That’s the core of a successful, enduring relationship. 

Being confident that you’re someone’s world and that they wouldn’t risk what they have with you for anything else is invaluable. 

If you care, prove it with deeds, not just words.

I don’t need to hear “I love you” every single day, but what I do need is to know that you are there for me always. 

I need a good morning kiss and a warm, comforting night hug. I need just one text a day that shows you’re thinking of me. 

I need you to stay when things become tough. I want us to share each other’s joy and victories. I need us to find happiness together. 

I need effort; I need loyalty. I need the kind of love that can only be felt, and words have nothing to do with it.