5 Reasons Why Strong Women Attract Narcissists And Psychopaths
Everyone seems to fall for a sociopath’s charisma. There’s a belief that only women with strong personalities can resist toxic men.
People think that strong women possess traits that make them immune to such individuals.
This is simply not accurate. Strong women aren’t unfeeling machines devoid of empathy or kindness.
They experience emotions just like any other woman. So, what makes it easier for them to reject the allure of a toxic man?
The truth is that being drawn to narcissists and sociopaths has nothing to do with one’s intelligence, educational background, or independence.
I’ve encountered numerous women—ranging from everyday individuals to those with advanced degrees—who have fallen victim to these types of men.
No one is immune to being attracted to an emotional manipulator.
In fact, manipulators, narcissists, and psychopaths are often more drawn to strong women. They appreciate these qualities because there’s more for them to exploit.
These women provide a vibrant energy that can easily be drained.
Here are the key reasons why strong women tend to attract narcissists and sociopaths:
They know how to make you feel valued
For strong women, finding someone with whom they connect on a deeper level can be a challenge. When that moment occurs, they might interpret it as destiny.
However, for those with toxic traits, it’s all part of the scheme.
Narcissists and sociopaths will mimic what you desire. They’ll enjoy the same hobbies and behave in ways that match your expectations.
Essentially, they will do anything to pull you deeper into their world.
Once they grab your attention and make you believe they are your perfect match, the real horror begins.
They realize you’re committed now, and walking away isn’t going to be easy for you.
Your feelings drive you to fight for them.
They seek intelligence and achievement
If you are successful and smart, you may become a target because they view you as a prize to claim.
Your success or financial stability boosts your appeal even more.
Their fixation on you has little to do with who you are as a person, but rather what you represent for them.
They desire everything you possess so they can flaunt their ‘accomplishment.’
Their confidence is magnetic
Interestingly, the more narcissistic a man is, the more appealing he can seem to women.
His confidence and a slight air of cockiness suggest that he knows what he wants and intends to achieve it.
When he makes you the focus of his attention, you feel cherished and flattered. It’s completely normal, and every woman experiences this feeling.
This makes it easy to get ensnared in their charm since they present everything you’re looking for in a partner…at least in the beginning.
Eventually, however, their true nature becomes evident.
They excel at manipulation
These individuals have the ability to deceive anyone. Their manipulation skills are finely tuned.
They operate this way effortlessly, often waiting until later in the relationship to reveal their true selves.
They remain undercover until you become invested, making it hard for you to leave.
When they finally have you in their control, they exploit you as a source of their needs.
The aftermath can be devastating. Recovering from a narcissist can leave you feeling skeptical about trusting again.
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They possess charm and assurance
When you come across a charismatic man, it’s hard not to be drawn to him, particularly if he exudes confidence.
The last thing you want is someone who is clingy and immature. You seek a partner who knows how to manage their own life.
This is the allure that pulls you in. You might ignore the red flags scattered along the way, either because you can’t see them or you choose not to.
A narcissist skillfully captivates their target, only to drain her emotional resources in the end.
No matter if you’re shy, strong, outgoing, or an empath, any type of woman can find herself in the sights of a narcissist or psychopath.
