Woman Reveals 5 Non-Negotiable Rules Her Boyfriend Must Follow

When it comes to our dream partner, we all have unique expectations. I know I’ve had my fair share! But one thing I’ve always believed is that it’s important to be upfront about what you want and set clear boundaries – no room for misunderstandings here!

Now, we often assume that some of our expectations are pretty standard, but what’s normal for one person might be outrageous for another. We all have different views on what’s acceptable and what’s not, so it’s crucial to be clear with our partners from the very start.

Taylor Donoghue certainly didn’t hold back when she shared her list of 5 non-negotiable rules with the world on TikTok! At least any potential partner will know what they’re signing up for!

1. Boys-only for Best Friends

Taylor kicked things off with her number one rule: no female best friends allowed for her boyfriend. She clarified that it’s fine for him to have female friends, but the best friend label is reserved for the brothers only! She believes that mixing genders with the “bestie” title can lead to drama, and who needs that?

Some folks agreed, with one woman sharing her experience of allowing her man to have a female roommate, only for it to end in tears. Sounds like a complicated situation!

2. Location Sharing: On or Off?

This next rule caused a stir. Taylor expects her boyfriend to keep his location services on at all times. While some saw this as a major invasion of privacy, Taylor sees it as a safety measure, especially when you’ve been dating someone for a while. She simply wants to ensure her partner is safe and sound.

However, she also admitted that it’s not just about safety. She doesn’t want her partner keeping secrets, and turning off location services might imply shady business. Others thought this revealed trust issues.

I can relate to both sides. My partner and I don’t share our locations constantly. We trust each other to be honest about our whereabouts, but we also recognize that we’re grown-ups with our own free will and choices. We don’t need to track each other down like missing persons!

3. Strip Clubs: The Great Debate

Taylor’s third rule? No strip clubs! She acknowledges that this is a controversial topic, with some couples even visiting these establishments together. But for her, it’s a hard no. Her boyfriend can enjoy a guys’ night out or hit the bars, but strip clubs are off the table.

I have to ask: are there really couples out there where this is a regular thing? Each to their own, I suppose, but I can’t say it’s my cup of tea!

4. Equal Splits: The New Standard?

Taylor’s next rule involved finances, and it stirred up a gender divide. Ladies, she expects a 50-50 split on all bills. Many women felt that men should at least pick up the tab on dates, but Taylor disagrees. She thinks men paying for everything is outdated and unfair.

It’s true that a lot of women nowadays prefer to go halves on expenses. It’s about independence and equality. But, as some pointed out, it would be nice if the same energy was applied to household chores and emotional labor! It’s only fair that responsibilities are shared equally.

5. Keep Your Thumbs Off Those Bikini Pics

Taylor’s final rule: no liking provocative pics on Instagram. She believes that it’s a major red flag when someone in a committed relationship likes revealing photos of others. She thinks it reflects poorly on the person and their relationship.

Taylor sees this as a basic expectation of respect, but not everyone agreed. Some found it controlling, while others felt it wasn’t an issue at all.

So, Is She Controlling or Simply Setting Standards?

Taylor’s rules sparked a lot of debate. Some commenters agreed with her, saying that her boundaries were reasonable and showed basic respect for a healthy relationship. Others called her controlling and insecure.

One man expressed surprise at the negative comments, feeling that Taylor was just being reasonable and setting standards. Some took issue with the idea of rules altogether, preferring a relationship without restrictions.

And of course, the big question: what about her boyfriend’s rules for her? In a follow-up video, Taylor shared that her boyfriend had four rules: no flirting or liking other men’s pics, no lip fillers, and regular check-ins when she’s out without him.

Interestingly, these rules seemed to receive a warmer reception. People found them more acceptable, even calling them the bare minimum. It goes to show that the discussion of relationship boundaries is a complex and often gender-biased topic.

So, what do you think? Do you have any rules in your relationships? Are Taylor’s boundaries reasonable or restrictive? Share your thoughts in the comments and check out the full video below for more insights.