Never Go Back To The Person Who Broke You

You might wonder, why should you listen to me, right?

But even if you don’t, deep down, you know your decision is a big mistake.

You’re aware that things will change for a while, and the moment you let your guard down, he’ll return to his old ways.

People don’t change overnight—especially those who think they’re fine as they are.

Deep down, you know he’s not trustworthy. He let you down, he disappointed you.

You’ve cried by his side countless times, begging him to change. You nearly broke down because you couldn’t take it anymore, and he promised he’d change, swearing on his life.

In those moments, he’d say anything to calm you down, just so he could do whatever he wanted. What a manipulator!

Even if you go back, do you think you’ll open up to him easily?

You might try, but your subconscious will build walls, walls that even you won’t notice are there.

If you let him back in, you won’t share anything real with him.

You won’t confide your secrets or deep emotions. You’ll keep your fears and happiness to yourself.

Why? Because you know why. He never listened to you. He never cared about what you had to say. That’s who he is, the man you kept giving chances to.

Now tell me, did he deserve them?

He’s unreliable. Every time you needed help, every time you needed support, where was he? I’ll tell you. He was out with friends.

He had more important things to do. He was always somewhere else, never by your side – never there for you.

Every time you were sad, you were left alone to fight your battles. But you shouldn’t have to deal with your troubles alone.

He should have been there for you. He should have been there to wipe your tears and hold you when you cried.

Remember sitting by his side, tears streaming down your face, hands shaking with frustration and anger? Remember how low you felt, and he wasn’t there to help you up?

Never go back to someone who wanted you all to himself but didn’t care about you.

That’s what possessive people do. He wanted you all for himself but never gave you the attention you deserved. He’d get jealous if you looked for attention elsewhere.

He forbade you to hang out with friends because he couldn’t handle the thought of you not being available to him all the time.

And why did he call you all the time when you were out without him? Because he didn’t trust you at all.

You discarded people who cared about you for him. Was he worth it? Was his fake love worth rejecting people who genuinely cared about you?

Do you realize how many people you unknowingly hurt just to keep a dying relationship alive?

You rejected people who loved you because of a selfish jerk who took your love for granted. A person who never appreciated you or everything you did for him.

Just think about all the energy, time, and love you wasted on someone who didn’t deserve it.

When your mind wanders back to him, remember how you settled for less than you deserve. Remember the pain of neglect you faced every day.

Remember every tough situation you faced alone because he chose not to be there for you – he chose something else as more important than you. Just remember…

Never go back to someone who swears they’ll change. Never believe their words because words are cheap.

You know better than anyone that words are easily spoken, but actions are harder to perform.

Believe in actions. Believe in something foreign to him, something he’s never done, and never go back to him.

Don’t go back to the person who broke you, because he’s the last person who can fix you. You’ll hold a grudge against him for the rest of your life.

Deep down, you’ll blame him for not trusting anyone, for being overly cautious when it comes to love. You might not realize it, but you’ll never act the same again.

He broke you. He can’t—and has no right to try to—fix you.

He’s part of your past now. He’s an example of everything one should never do. Trust me, you have the evidence to back you up.

You have examples, and more importantly, you have unhealed wounds on your heart – wounds he inflicted.

He is everything you don’t deserve. Please, never go back to him.