I Don’t Care Who Was Before Me, As Long As I Know There’s Nobody “During” Me

It doesn’t matter to me who your past lovers are, your brief relationships, or your spontaneous encounters, as long as I understand that I am your present, your future, and every day that follows…

I’m not concerned with who slept beside you previously or who has tasted those delightful cherry lips; what matters is that space beside you in your bed is just for me and your kisses belong solely to me.

I have my own history too. I’ve experienced love before you entered the scene, which is exactly why I’m not focused on what’s past. What truly matters is the present.

Honestly, my own history feels like a faded page in a book. A tale I barely remember. My emotions for you are unparalleled; they surpass anything I’ve ever felt.

I can sincerely say that true love was just a concept until I felt it for you.

That’s why I wish the same for you. I trust you to be sincere and wholeheartedly invest in this love. I know I am.

I’m not interested in your history or those who came before me…

I desire to know that your attention is directed solely at me.

I don’t want your gaze to drift towards another woman while I’m next to you. That feels disrespectful. I know many men struggle with this, but I hope you can resist for my sake.

I yearn to be as significant to you as you are to me. I want to be the only one who excites you. I want the same level of respect that I am offering you.

I need to know that you are faithful.

I don’t want restless nights because something you’ve done makes me question your fidelity. Please be transparent with me.

Show loyalty and dedication. Be true to your word. To make this relationship thrive, we must trust one another. Trust is the foundation.

I want to be assured of your commitment to us.

No, I don’t need you to assure me of marriage or eternal companionship just yet. It’s too soon for that.

What I need to know now is that you are wholeheartedly committed to this relationship. I want no hesitations or uncertainties. I want to be sure that you’ll stand by me.

I want to feel confident you won’t flee at the first sign of trouble. I want to know your feelings for me don’t frighten you. I want to see that you’re all in.

I want to witness your effort.

Demonstrate that your feelings for me are as intense as mine are for you. Show me that you’re ready to meet me halfway and that I’m not navigating this alone.

Surprise me. Make plans. Call. Text. Hug. Kiss. Cuddle. Share your time with me. Enthrall me.

I want to know that you’re not apathetic when I’m feeling down.

I understand we will have our disagreements. I just wish to see you as invested in resolving our issues as I am. I want us confronting any challenges as a united front.

I want to feel your concern for my emotions. I don’t want you to disregard me or let me be when I’m feeling blue.

I want to know that your heart beats solely for me.

I want to be present in every aspect of your heart. I refuse to share it with anyone else. For us to flourish, you need to be mine and exclusively mine.

I assure you, my entire heart is devoted to you.