How To Play A Player: 10 Ways To Beat Him At His Own Game

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We’ve all encountered players, whether they’ve caused pain for us or a friend (or are currently trying to do so).

We know his tactics; sometimes we realize he’s a player, yet we still find ourselves ensnared.

 

 

His gameplay is impressive; he’s charming, attractive, and always says the perfect thing.

He manages to convince you of his every claim and makes you feel uniquely valued.

Before you know it, you’re trapped in a web of deceptions, unsure of what’s real and what’s fabricated.

Finally, when he reveals his true self, you see that he has bested you.

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It doesn’t have to be a lost cause! Regardless of how desperate you might feel, you possess the ability to win the game and remind him who’s in charge.

If you suspect he’s playing games, don’t delay! Here are 10 strategies to turn the tables and make him experience his own medicine!

1. Treat Him with Indifference

 

 

Players thrive on attention the moment they step into a bar. To play him effectively, you must first capture his interest—ignoring him is a clever tactic to achieve this. However, be cautious; you don’t want to appear uncivil.

What you must do is adopt a courteous indifference. Make it seem like you’re not keen on engaging your time with him and that he has to elevate his efforts if he wishes to catch your interest. Show him you’re not an easy conquest.

Act sufficiently uninterested that he’s left wondering why his charm failed to enchant you.

Display that you have more intriguing activities to partake in than conversing with him and politely excuse yourself with a captivating smile. Let the games begin.

2. Give Him a Hint of Acknowledgment

When engaging in this game, depending on the setting, you can take this step after several hours or even days of interaction at the same venue.

Smile from across the room and offer a brief introduction. Ensure he doesn’t have the opportunity to ask you to dance, take you on a date, or shower you with compliments.

Play by your own set of rules. Take a drink, express your gratitude, and take your leave. Say “hello” and exit.

Leave him confused because he’s not accustomed to being challenged.

Following this, he will likely contemplate that he must have made a significant error, leading to your departure.

That’s when he begins crafting a new strategy to win you over, blissfully unaware that you’ll always be ahead in this game, and nothing he does will be adequate to win your favor. But, shhh!

3. Exhibit How Much Fun You’re Having

Trust me, for any man, nothing is more enticing than witnessing a woman enjoying herself (without him).

Whether you’re having a blast with your squad, excelling at your job, or savoring some personal time, men are attracted to women who exude confidence and embrace their lives.

Demonstrate to him that you’re fully engaged in your life and don’t require a man to enhance it.

Prove to him that he’s not a necessity. This should be sufficient to make you seem like an intriguing challenge.

Once he understands that you’re thriving without him, he may feel inadequate and look for ways to recapture your attention.

4. Ensure he notices you enjoying time with other guys

Ah yes, the classic game of jealousy. You showed little desire to spend quality time with him and seemed indifferent toward his compliments and humor, while effortlessly enjoying a great time with other men, giggling at their jokes and blushing at their flirtations.

There’s no need to elaborate on how utterly miserable he might feel witnessing this.

Observing you having a good time with other guys will likely drive him wild and compel him to make it clear that he deserves your focus.

However, tread carefully; avoid coming off as overly flirtatious; just enough to evoke a hint of jealousy.

He’ll face the rivalry he requires and will have a chance to illustrate how special he is (or isn’t).

5. Engage in flirtation

You’ve reached the latter half of the game, the audience is engaged, and control is now in your hands.

Gaze at him with intrigue from across the space; make your way toward him. Engage him in conversation, enjoy his humor, yet make it known you’re not an easy target.

Avoid showering him with compliments; keep the atmosphere playful and lively. Accidentally brush your hand against his arm, laugh intermittently, and sprinkle in some cheeky banter.

Always signal that you’re the one calling the shots and that he must adhere to your rules to keep participating in the game.

6. Stay unaffected by his allure

He’s accustomed to capturing the gaze of numerous women nearby, but show him you’re immune to his charm. Call him Romeo or refer to the ladies around him as just friends.

Reveal to him that you’ve seen past his façade and recognize his cunning approaches.

Let him understand that if he intends to win your heart, he’ll need to adopt a new approach because the current tactics don’t meet your criteria.

He’ll become increasingly eager to shift your views, wanting to demonstrate that he’s different, which will lead to a fixation on you. The stage is set, and it’s all down to enjoyment and games.

7. Keep an air of intrigue

Avoid sharing too much personal information. Provide just sufficient details to pique his interest without revealing your complete narrative. Steer clear of discussing past relationships, aspirations, or fears.

Your primary objective is to maintain an air of intrigue, which will work in your favor.

Bear in mind, players are accustomed to getting what they desire, and when they encounter someone who resists this pattern, their curiosity will inevitably heighten.

For instance, if he inquires about your day, offer a vague response and redirect the question back to him.

Maintain an element of elusiveness; this ensures he remains engaged and eager to learn more about you.

Related: 15 Indications You Are Not Just Intertwined Physically, You Are Experiencing Emotional Intimacy

8. Keep a Low Profile

Players typically anticipate constant attention from women. They are used to frequent messages and calls.

But you shouldn’t be one of those women. Refrain from initiating texts; if he reaches out, respond the following day.

If he calls, return his call hours later and cite your busyness as an excuse (bonus points if you were indeed occupied with another guy or work). Create an aura of curiosity around your whereabouts and activities.

Amaze him with unclear responses and ambiguous remarks. Let him grasp the reality of being somewhat disregarded through text interactions.

9. Demonstrate Indifference

Nothing frustrates a player more than your resolute refusal to play into his schemes and provocations.

While he may try to provoke jealousy, respond by showing him that his antics mean little to you, as your interest in him is minimal (so why would you feel jealous in the first place?)

If he strolls into a bar with another girl, be cordial and greet him.

If he makes advances toward your friends, smile and enjoy yourself immensely.

Prove to him that his actions don’t disturb you, that no matter how he behaves, you remain unfazed.

Regardless of whom he picks up, you do not feel jealousy. In any situation he creates, your indifference reigns.

Reflect that his importance to you is far less than he imagines – this will make him highly agitated!

10. Outsmart a Player

To effectively outwit a player, you must grasp some fundamental principles, but the cardinal rule is to NEVER develop romantic feelings. This is merely a game, keep that in mind.

Act as if you hold affection for him while you fully relish your independence.

Make him believe he is special while being fully aware that your words carry no substantial weight.

And when you sense his attraction peaks, sever the connection.

It’s crucial to remain involved long enough for him to think he’s won and still exit before he tires of you.

Being a savvy player requires commitment, so don’t engage unless genuinely prepared or eager to get your revenge for any past grievances.

If boredom strikes, walk away. If he professes feelings, exit promptly.

Don’t overstay your welcome to avoid developing feelings yourself. Once you’ve made up your mind to cut ties, do so decisively.

Avoid hanging around, giving him second chances; refrain from drawing out the situation, as that could backfire.

Sever the relationship cleanly and completely. You’ve accomplished your mission – you successfully navigated the game of playing a player.