This Is Why & How To Embrace Fighting With Your Boyfriend

Do you ever find yourself hesitating to advocate for your feelings within your romantic relationship?

Are you concerned that standing your ground might jeopardize your relationship? Is fighting synonymous with splitting up, right?

Actually, no! And it’s a resounding no at that. This notion is mistaken. Every couple experiences disagreements, and these minor conflicts can actually be beneficial for your relationship.

It’s not going to ruin the bond; in fact, it can enhance your emotional intimacy.

I fully understand where you’re coming from. I’ve been there, too. My fear of being rejected led me to keep my concerns buried deep within.

Regrettably, I didn’t realize how significant of an error that was—and it truly was. My apprehension fostered an unhealthy and toxic environment between us that nearly cost me the one I love.

I assumed everything was fine and thought I could suppress my feelings, until one fateful day, I could no longer hold back, and all those pent-up emotions erupted. To be precise, they exploded.

This outburst brought to light numerous unresolved issues in our relationship. Thankfully, the love we shared was resilient enough, allowing us to work through everything and preserve our relationship.

From then on, we vowed to always express our feelings and refrain from burying them. We learned to honor our differences and tackle our issues in a constructive manner.

Disagreements can actually unite us

Each time we argue and momentarily lose our temper, we become acutely aware that our lives are intertwined.

With each reconciliation post-disagreement, our belief in the strength of our connection only grows, proving that it’s impervious to harm.

Encouraging fights has enhanced our communication skills

Do you truly understand the significance of effective communication for a relationship’s health? At the start, we didn’t, and it nearly derailed our relationship.

We recognized we had issues but opted not to address them, expecting that ignoring them would make them vanish.

Now, we’ve mastered effective communication techniques. We’ve embraced accountability for our actions and learned how to apologize and forgive each other.

These changes have not only improved our relationship but have also fortified our connection immensely.

It has fostered better listening and understanding between us

I wasn’t aware of how to be an attentive listener, which likely contributed to many of the issues in our relationship.

Thankfully, by accepting some minor disagreements in our relationship, I also learned to truly listen and be attuned to my partner’s needs. After all, their needs are just as important as my own.

Small conflicts facilitated positive adjustments in our relationship

Honestly, previously, neither of us was completely happy with certain aspects of our relationship, but we hesitated to bring them up as we feared it might harm our relationship.

Once we acknowledged that some level of disagreement is unavoidable in a relationship, we realized that changes can actually be beneficial for the relationship.

Now we are open to making compromises, and meeting each other’s needs has become our top priority.

Our affection for each other increased

Engaging in arguments has also encouraged us to show more affection towards one another. I must say, it truly revitalized and reignited the spark in our relationship.

Whenever one of us errs, we aim to handle it constructively, followed by an apology from the one at fault, who strives to demonstrate genuine remorse for their actions.

We learned to manage our egos for the benefit of the relationship

Believe me, there was an ongoing battle occurring between our egos and emotions. We were oblivious to the fact that it was gradually damaging our bond.

Our relationship turned into a rivalry where we endlessly sought to outdo one another and prove ourselves superior.

Luckily, once we managed to control our egos, our communication flourished and our connection deepened as well.

Admit it, the reconciliation after an argument is undoubtedly the most rewarding!

Do you concur that couples who are truly in love also engage in passionate disputes? Yes? I agree, too.

But here’s the silver lining: they also reconnect intensely after those disagreements, making those reconciliations particularly special.

We pledged that our love will always take precedence

Indeed, I recognize that quarreling over trivial matters is an unavoidable aspect of every relationship, and that having some disagreements is actually beneficial.

We committed to never ending the day with unresolved issues or lingering anger.

Our relationship will forever remain our utmost priority. We realize the depth of our love, and that’s why we refuse to let anything threaten our connection.

Ultimately, the only thing that truly matters is having one another… everything else can be addressed.

Our love will triumph over every challenge because it is genuinely the greatest force in existence.