All I Really Need In A Relationship Is Consistency And Effort

I’m done with beating around the bush. If you’re unable to meet my expectations, then I’ve decided I can no longer invest my time in you.

What I seek is your unwavering presence in my life, not just sporadic responses to my messages.

I wish for you to call and ask me how my day has unfolded. I want you to take the lead in reaching out to me every once in a while.

It cannot always be me taking the initiative to text and call. It gives me the impression that your commitment is not serious.

I expect to receive your good morning messages each day, not only on days we have plans.

It’s important for me to feel like I’m the first thought in your mind when you wake up and for you to be curious about every detail of my day because I want to share everything with you.

However, I don’t want to feel like I’m a hassle by sharing things that might not engage you.

I hope you will plan our weekends together. I want you to choose me even when your friends are available, not just when they’re busy, so we can go on little adventures together.

Weekends represent comfort, and I want to feel like I provide that comfort for you.

When you make a promise, it is imperative that you honor it. I’m tired of feeling let down by your constant excuses and the never-ending cycle of unfulfilled promises.

If you can’t uphold your commitments, then I’m sorry, but I can’t continue this. I require stability and effort. Anything less, and I will walk away.

Please text me goodnight every single night.

I need to know that I occupy your thoughts before you drift off to sleep, and I expect you to comfort me when my insecurities and doubts arise for no clear reason.

Love has its ups and downs, and there will be moments when I may be difficult to deal with.

I might feel a bit jealous or insecure sometimes, and I need you to be there to understand and support me.

Running away when the relationship faces challenges is beneath you. It’s a cowardly act to leave when times get tough.

True men stand by their partners even when things become a bit challenging. That dedication is what will fortify our relationship and make it authentic.

I want your desire to be with me to extend beyond just physical attraction. I truly appreciate your physical affection, but it cannot be the only aspect.

My need runs deeper. It’s essential for me to know that you enjoy spending time with me for more than merely physical intimacy.

We should engage in conversations that span hours, touching on anything and everything, where no topic is off-limits.

I want to feel at ease confiding in you about matters I wouldn’t share with anyone else.

More than anything, I want you to fight for me. During my most unkempt and low moments, I want you to remind me of my beauty.

In my moments of exhaustion and weariness after a tough day, I need to sense your love and support.

It’s vital that your actions reflect your words. I expect you to equally invest in our relationship. I refuse to engage in anything that lacks genuine effort.

I desire for you to express your love for me unexpectedly and regularly. I think asking for that isn’t unreasonable.

What I want is your encouragement. When I accomplish something I’m excited about, it’s vital for you to be my loudest supporter.

I long for you to take pride in me, to celebrate my successes, and to help me feel valued, because to me, you are truly remarkable.

I wish to hear your sincere views on matters that hold significance in my life. I seek for you to be a part of my life in all possible aspects.

I can’t stand the thought of boring you with my interests; if that happens, it won’t work out.

I’m keenly interested in your life, your friends, your passions, and the challenges you face. I want to be your ally in overcoming difficulties, and I hope you’ll do the same for me.

When you promise to call, I need assurance that it’s a commitment you’re keeping.

I need reassurance and a sense of stability in our relationship.

Above all, I require your reliability. I need assurance that I can depend on you, that I can trust you, and that you are truly committed to this relationship.

That’s how I recognize we genuinely have a chance for something meaningful.

Hearing “I love you” will forever be my cherished three words from you, yet I need you to constantly reaffirm that love, because being consistent means checking in on me and showing commitment.

I want you to truly understand me—the real me, with my imperfections—and love me regardless of my flaws.

I need you to be consistently proud of me and introduce me to those who matter in your life, as this makes me feel valued in your world as well.

I will always need your frankness, even when delivering tough truths. I would prefer a difficult truth over a comforting falsehood any day.

Being consistent means you won’t suddenly decide that what you want has changed.

It signifies that you are committed to this journey for the long run and are prepared for whatever comes our way.

We are partners, and there’s nothing that we can’t face together.

I love you and I need to know you love me enough to continue this journey with me, because we both understand that we can endure every challenge and hardship.

I don’t have many demands. Just remain reliable, make a genuine effort, and stay authentic to your promises. Everything else will naturally unfold.