The Truth Is, Nothing Will Stop Him From Pursuing You If He Truly Wants You

The reality is, if a guy genuinely desires you, nothing will keep him from being near you.

The flip side of this reality, albeit a harsh one, is if he doesn’t desire you, nothing will compel him to remain.

Misunderstanding can only arise when you fail to acknowledge this fact.

The sole complication emerges when you begin inventing justifications to avoid the reality. This is the truth.

Absolutely nothing will prevent him from chasing you — if he truly desires you.

No matter how much hurt you’re experiencing, honesty is preferable. It’s preferable to be hurt by the truth than to be lulled by untruths. Because truth invariably surfaces, and deceiving yourself only prolongs the suffering.

If he’s not pursuing you, you must understand that he genuinely doesn’t want to be with you.

If he’s not chasing you, he’s not sufficiently interested. He wants you, but not enough to be honest. He likes you, but not that much.

He could be with you, but he could also be with someone else. It doesn’t matter to him. So why stay with someone who’s indifferent to you? You shouldn’t.

If he’s not pursuing you, he’s not ready to commit.

He’s not ready to devote all his time to one woman. He’s not ready to say no to all others or give up his options. Recognize that spending time with such a guy is wasted.

If he’s not pursuing you, he’s not ready to work to keep you. He lets you go too easily.

He might want you, but only if you do all the effort. If he’s unwilling to invest effort, to work to keep you, then he isn’t worthy of you.

Be honest, for the man who desires to be with you, nothing will stand as a barrier. Nothing will hinder him. Moreover, he won’t need to declare his desire to be with you; his actions will speak volumes.

If he desires you, timing won’t be an issue.

Timing will never be off. Why? Because he’ll make it the perfect time to have you in his life.

He won’t view you as someone arriving in the middle of chaos but as someone coming at the right moment to help him make sense of the disorder.

If he desires you, he won’t leave you waiting while he figures things out. Everything will be resolved with you by his side.

You will be the one leading him to feel his life makes sense when you are present. He’ll find motivation and encouragement in you, you’ll be his guiding light.

If he desires you, nothing is complex. Claiming things are complex is for cowards. It’s something those playing games say. True men resolve complex situations.

They work through all obstacles to be with the woman they desire. They make an effort, and that’s the significant difference.

In all honesty, nothing will hinder him from pursuing you, if he truly wants you.

Real men don’t hide behind excuses. They don’t play games, letting boys do that. A real man steps up his game and pursues the woman he desires to be with.

When a man is attracted to a woman, he ensures she knows it.

He goes out of his way to get her attention, doing all he can to make her fall for him.

A man who genuinely desires a woman ensures he is the man she deserves. He works on himself, confronts barriers, and eliminates them, rather than giving up or creating excuses about why it can’t happen.

This is a reality we all need to maturely accept: nothing will deter a man from pursuing a woman he genuinely wants to be with. Conversely, if he doesn’t truly desire her, no words, actions, or love will be enough to make him stay.

Remember this:

• A man will always show you your place in his life through his actions.
• If you feel like you don’t belong, you probably don’t.
• If you feel insignificant to him, it’s likely because you are in his eyes.
• If you find yourself questioning your place in his life, the likely answer is that you don’t have one.
• If you have to chase him, he doesn’t want to be with you.

The man who genuinely desires you will make his intentions clear. He’ll:

• Ensure you know where you stand in his life.
• Openly express his feelings without ambiguity.
• Take action to include you in his life without delays or excuses.
• Show you through consistent actions that you are valued and wanted.

Any other behavior is a sign of immaturity and uncertainty. If a man doesn’t know what he wants or fails to demonstrate his desire for you, take it as a signal to move on. Seek someone who is certain of their feelings and truly desires to be with you.