The First 6 Things Men Notice About You
Everyone knows the drill. When he finally asks you on a date, your immediate response is to ring up your best friend and spill all the juicy details.
Then you start to panic because you have nothing suitable to wear (deep down, you realize it’s not entirely true). Your hair looks chaotic. You begin to question your nail polish shade, and the list goes on.
I understand you’re anxious about how you look; you want to present your best self because you’re really into that guy, and you wish for everything to go off without a hitch.
You’re justified in feeling that way. However, what if he doesn’t even care about your nail polish color, whether your hair is freshly washed, or if your outfit colors are coordinated?
Trust me, he doesn’t.
I’ve learned this lesson through experience. I was in a mad dash preparing for a date with a guy I truly admired.
Matching my socks was beyond me, let alone coordinating my whole outfit because I was panicking and didn’t want him to be left waiting for ages outside my home.
In the end, I barely managed to brush my teeth, fix my hair, throw on my go-to black jeans, and a simple white tee.
Honestly, I felt terrible, yet he treated me as if I were the most beautiful girl alive.
A couple of months later, when I brought up the first impressions he had of me that evening, he told me men’s perceptions are entirely different from what we tend to assume.
I discovered that the first aspects men notice about you are nearly unrelated to the details we focus on.
1. Your Smile
While you’re fretting over your lipstick shade, men will zero in on your smile instead.
Your smile serves as the strongest tool in your arsenal, yet during moments of distraction over trivial things, we often forget to use it.
A smile universally conveys happiness and comfort in your own skin to him.
2. Your Eyes
No, they are not focused on how much mascara you’ve applied. They overlook those details.
What they do notice is the emotions reflected in your eyes — sadness, happiness, and everything in between. Your eyes will reveal the authenticity of your smile and how much you cherish being with them.
Just embrace the moment and relish it, and he’ll see that in your eyes.
3. Your Enjoyment of Life
In addition to your smile and eyes, they’ll be attentive to your mannerisms and speech.
These aspects reflect your character and your general satisfaction with life.
They pick up on your enthusiasm while you talk and your interest in the world around you.
They see if you relish life and if you appreciate the little joys it brings.
4. Your Treatment of Strangers
They…Notice the manner in which you interact with strangers. Individuals often observe whether you extend the same degree of respect to everyone (taxi drivers, those experiencing homelessness, etc.). If you display generosity toward servers yet treat taxi drivers poorly, that distinction won’t go unnoticed. Men tend to be sensitive regarding these behaviors. They appreciate women who treat everyone with parity, as these women recognize their value and confidently express gratitude to all individuals, no matter their position.
5. Your Dependence on Appearance
It’s widely acknowledged that men are attracted to visuals, which can sometimes lead women to overlook the importance of their inner selves. Men pay attention to whether you depend solely on your appearance or if you possess much more depth. If you embrace your adventurous side and exude confidence, you will pique their interest, and you are certain to win their hearts. Focusing too much on makeup can diminish your self-assurance and spoil the joy of the moment.
6. Do You Hold Strong Views?
If you are a woman who voices her opinions strongly and doesn’t simply agree with everything he states, he will take note. If he observes that you possess firm views on various subjects, he will regard you as his equal and display respect toward you. Men naturally seek a challenge; they desire for you to tell them when they are mistaken, and they will strive to demonstrate otherwise. They will value you for encouraging their growth and pushing them to think critically, ultimately inspiring them to become the finest versions of themselves.
