A Man Can’t Handle The Same Reality He Gives A Woman
Females struggle to accept reality. They tend to idealize excessively. They enjoy too many films.
They often float in fantasies and hope for unattainable things from men who are merely striving to be pragmatic.
Is that accurate?!
Males express their genuinely pathetic desires towards women as the norm.
The viewpoint that life is neither optimistically nor pessimistically half-full.
In this narrative, a woman’s yearning for affection and genuine care resembles a glass so filled that it’s spilling over.
The only way men believe things should function is for them to wield all the control, enforce their own methods, and to ignore how a woman feels entirely.
He feels unwell. You prepare soothing soup, caress his chest, and queue up his beloved shows while you delicately knead his back.
You fall ill. He drops a message to see if you’re okay.
In an ideal world, he might send two texts.
You’d feel pleased that he remembered to check on your status.
You prepared a meal for him, and he ends up late for dining. He claims he couldn’t arrive on schedule, and you reassure him that it’s all good.
He may have cooked (unlikely, right?), and you end up delayed for the meal (no way, you’d feel too thankful that he’s doing something nice for you).
You have an excellent reason, and he creates a fuss.
Whatever effort he offers you demands your admiration, whereas your care for him is merely practical.
If you take a moment to reflect, you’ll realize that you are prioritizing his desires and preferences while he rarely thinks of yours.
The question to ponder is: would your relationship still be viable if roles were reversed?
Could he ever function in the background while you relished the limelight?
Could he confront coming home from work, wishing to vent about a frustrating day, and you acting uninterested while focused on a game?
No.
Could he manage sending you a dozen texts without a reply and then concocting a weak excuse when you eventually respond?
No.
Could he cope with being unaware of your whereabouts for an entire evening or with whom you are sharing your time, while you assert it’s none of his concern how and why you spend your time?
Not a single chance.
The reality is, a man cannot process the same truths that a woman endures.
He acts as though he’s resilient and powerful. He claims he could never be needy or complain.
He makes it a point to let you see that you are excessively emotional, overly possessive, and exaggerated in every way while he remains the perfect balance.
He would never, ever be able to behave in the manner that you do.
