This Is What Being Faithful Really Is (Because It’s More Than Not Cheating)

Staying loyal goes beyond just being intimate with one person and expressing your love. It involves making a conscious choice for that person each day.

It requires putting in extra effort for your partner and recognizing their value.

It’s about dedicating significant time to your significant other while setting aside nights out with friends, and avoiding flirting with others. You are committed, and this should be clear to everyone.

Being loyal means informing any girl who shows interest in you that you are unavailable because your heart belongs to someone else.

Remaining faithful entails having transparent communication with your partner. It’s about sharing the fact that a coworker seemed to be attracted to you throughout the day, but you did not engage.

It involves understanding the ups and downs yet still choosing to stay committed.

To resist the negative challenges life presents us. Being loyal is about recognizing your limits and steadfastly adhering to them.

I’m not suggesting you ignore the presence of other women, but you must treat them differently than your girlfriend. Doing otherwise is illogical.

Believe me—this will not make her feel valued at all. Think carefully before taking action.

No one can tell you to avoid your friends of the opposite sex who have been part of your life for a long time. However, if you feel the need to conceal messages from another person from your girlfriend, it indicates something hidden that she should not discover.

Consider how your girlfriend might react if she learns about this. She would likely feel anxious, insecure, and puzzled.

She is aware that where there is smoke, there is fire. She can sense it because she knows you intimately.

She has a way of finishing your thoughts, so don’t assume you can deceive her.

Remember that being faithful entails not allowing anyone else into your heart since there is already a special person in that space, leaving no room for romantic involvement with others.

Remaining loyal means being genuinely content with the realization that you will share your life with one person. It involves doing everything possible to protect your relationship.

Being true means ignoring your friends when they propose dancing with a girl who has been flirting with you all night.

It involves using your rational mind instead of succumbing to temptation. Even if infidelity occurs, reminders of her will linger—her hands can hold you back or her lips will tempt you.

You will sense her essence, and guilt will wash over you if you betray your partner.

Embrace maturity and make a conscious choice. If you can commit to one woman, that’s wonderful. If not, don’t lead her on.

It’s kinder to tell her you no longer feel the same and allow her to move on. After all, she will eventually tire of your unfaithfulness and leave.

Keep in mind—the fury of a scorned woman is unparalleled.

So, choose loyalty and achieve the ultimate goal we all seek in life: A companion to hold our hand at the end.